your friend tells you a life altering secret?
you know this is hurting them?
you want so badly for them to know the grace you know?
your heart is breaking because of how much they are hurting?
they ask if this is going to change your relationship?
Answer... You love, you pray, you do not judge, you share some scripture, and you give them hugs. You tell them that they will always be your friend, you love them, friends are friends for life. We as Christians were not put on earth to judge, but to show Christ's love and tell others about him.